" Secret of Happiness....."

Your heart is your Love
Your Love is your Family
Your Family is your Future
Your Future is your Destiny
Your Destiny is your Aspiration
Your Aspiration is your Motivation
Your Motivation is your Belief
Your Belief is your Peace
Your Peace is your Joy
Your Joy is your Family communication
Your family communication is JESUS
And JESUS is your "secret of happiness......"

"Birthday Gift...."

Birthday gift is something special that you receive from someone who is very special also....
Here I want to share some story about my birthday gift when I was child...
I'm the first child and I was spoiled by my parents, I have : 2 brothers and 2 sisters....I love them so much....!!!

Now, I'm 25 years old...When I was 7 years old I received the best Gift from my lovely father and mother....
My father gave me a bicycle and my mother gave me a ring and I felt very happy when I received that gift.... When the date was coming close they told me that they would not give me anything and at the moment I very disappointed with them, but suddenly they brought for me some present and the present was bicycle and a ring, It was very touched my heart. The bicycle was very beautiful and green in colors my father knew that I liked green colors and the ring was very old but I like it because my great grandmother's ring....
The present is very special for me because I got something special from my beloved parents..... I love them so much, thank you father- thank you mother.
I'll always remember it in my life.....

"Live This Day Well.......... "

In the afternoon on 31^st March 2011, when we have a English class I read the book about

“ Power of The Heart ( by J. Maurus)”  Suppose, the heart always the true……

Love is the power of the heart. Love is life and enriches all men. Without love, you are nothing: I am nothing and the world is nothing………

Believe in your heart

That something wonderful; is about to happen

Believe in your potential to release each day

Your own innate goodness.

Wake up every morning

With the awe of just being alive.

Discover each day. The awesome beauty of the world

Embrace life in yourself

And in everyone you meet on your way.

Admit that you are less than perfect

This is the essence of our humanity

Look with hope to the horizon of today,

For today are all we truly had creating your own rainbow?

"After a while"

In Thursday on 31^Th March 2001 I read this Poem is very wonderful and I’m very like it.

AFTER A WHILE

After a while you learn the subtle different between

 Holding a hand and chaining a soul……

And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security…

And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and present aren’t promises…..

And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child…….

And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans…

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much………

So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers….

And you learn that you really can endure…..

That you really are strong, and you really do have worth...

the Sentences which I bold it I'm very like it,,,,,

It's mean I have to plant my own garden and decorate my own soul, instead of waiting someone to bring me flowers...... 

  "AFTER A WHILE"

" Try to Remember "

In the afternoon on 28th March 2011, when I was waiting my lecture for a class I read something from Chicken Soup For Teenage Soul .  It is very nice and very special. It's make me strong and want to try in my real life.......
That story about someone who wants to try everything in his real life and how to learn for the lesson.....

Try to remember....

1. Everybody doesn't have to love me
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be OK and still fell like I am OK person. I can't make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be OK.....

2. It's OK to make mistakes
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no person for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying and if I make a mistakes, I am going to continue trying and I can handle making a mistakes. Don't be shy to make mistakes because nobody is perfect......

3. Other people are OK and I'm OK.
People who things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are, we all deserve basic respect.

4. I don't have to control things
I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am.

5. I am responsible for my day
I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything.

6. I can handle it when things go wrong
I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong. things usually go just fine. and when they don't I can handle it.

7. It's Important to try
"I CAN" even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, It is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something.

8. I am Capable
I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of my self. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me.

9. I can change
I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. it's silly to think I can't help being the way I am. Of course I can. I CAN CHANGE.

10. Other people are capable
I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves and they can resolve their own problems.

11. I can be flexible.
There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. there is no one and only "BEST" way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but every one's ideas are worthwhile, and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.

This the best lesson I ever read and think It'll be have benefit to who has read it.

"Try to remember"

Losing the "AMOR"

When I lost someone very important in my life, I realize that GOD still loves me...
God always try me how to be become a patience woman?
I know that God always love me....
one afternoon when I felt lonely I read some story from the chicken soup for the teenage soul the story about relationship,the story same with my love story and Now I want to share to all of You how I lost someone in my life.......

I ever heart that sentences and I'm very like it :
"When an emotional injury takes place,
the body begins a process as natural as the healing of a physical wound,
Let the process happen, trust that nature will do the healing
know that the pain will past,and when it passes,you will be stronger,happier, more sensitive and aware"……….

This is the story :
The girl is very beautiful, Intelligent, attractive and down to earth. Her name is ILA. The boy name's LEO, They had been relationship for 9 years........
ILA very loves LEO,she thinks that LEO only boy she would ever have these feeling for, that He was one of the only boy would ever understand her and cares so much to her....and she thinks that LEO is a perfect man to her.......
One day ILA decided to continuous her study in abroad and time pass away everything is going fine......
in abroad LEO always calls her......
but one day when ILA was coming back for holiday, she saw LEO with another girl were dating. but Leo always said to ILA that he would always care for her,but that it had become impossible to love her.
she is very disappoint with LEO and she decided to broke-up from LEO. For weeks she couldn't see him with other girls without thinking that they were dating. she threw herself at different guys. she doesn't know exactly what point things started to change. She began spending time with her friends. She joined clubs and made after school plans. she was doing all she could to stay busy.
slowly she began to have fun by herself without LEO. beyond that, she discovered things she liked doing, ways she could be of help. She lend sympathetic ear to others who were hurting.
Time pass away she began to smile and finally to laugh again. whole days would pass without a thought of LEO.....

The wonderful that happened was that I learned " HOW TO BE A WHOLE PERSON NOT A HALF COUPLE" but I had asked myself if never caring for someone so that I wouldn't feel that hurt was worth it.
I know now that the famous quote is true. "BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THAN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL". Because no matter what, Loving myself can heal anything.

I had lost someone in my life there is My first love and my everything but I realize that I never lost my parent, my friends and everyone who loves me...life must go on, and Now LIFE IS MINE, I do what I want to do, Nobody else only me, There's no point to waiting him again, He is the pass and now I'm waiting for my future because loving myself can heal anything that is the point....

       

 Good Bye "LEO"

" I Found New friends........"

We have been here for 7 months, time is going it is too fast I can't go back to that time...

I found someone in here special that I found many friends here.

7 months in here I met a great new friend whom knew me right away.

It was funny but I don't know. we always together wherever and whenever we go....

we fought, Laughed, and cried together it's so many and I can't write in here....

all I have to say that they are very understanding and they are special.

We listened each other if somebody has a problem, We listened each other in dreams. We talked about love and life.

They know me better than myself.

They know me better than I do because they know how I felt.

We always dieturb each other if somebody has a problem... hahhaaahahah

(it's the great moment when we disturb each other)

They just listened very patiently and didn't go away.

I want they understand "How much I love them"

They are My Friends.... My all friends who I know them In Mangalore....

Love U all My friends... :)

Best Friend Forever