Monday, March 28, 2011

" Try to Remember "

In the afternoon on 28th March 2011, when I was waiting my lecture for a class I read something from Chicken Soup For Teenage Soul .  It is very nice and very special. It's make me strong and want to try in my real life.......
That story about someone who wants to try everything in his real life and how to learn for the lesson.....

Try to remember....

1. Everybody doesn't have to love me
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be OK and still fell like I am OK person. I can't make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be OK.....

2. It's OK to make mistakes
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no person for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying and if I make a mistakes, I am going to continue trying and I can handle making a mistakes. Don't be shy to make mistakes because nobody is perfect......

3. Other people are OK and I'm OK.
People who things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are, we all deserve basic respect.

4. I don't have to control things
I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am.

5. I am responsible for my day
I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything.

6. I can handle it when things go wrong
I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong. things usually go just fine. and when they don't I can handle it.

7. It's Important to try
"I CAN" even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, It is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something.

8. I am Capable
I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of my self. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me.

9. I can change
I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. it's silly to think I can't help being the way I am. Of course I can. I CAN CHANGE.

10. Other people are capable
I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves and they can resolve their own problems.

11. I can be flexible.
There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. there is no one and only "BEST" way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but every one's ideas are worthwhile, and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.

This the best lesson I ever read and think It'll be have benefit to who has read it.

"Try to remember"